Saturday, November 27, 2010

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学会沉默  
有时候,你被人误解,你不想争辩,所以选择沈默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你,因此你认为不必对全世界喊话。却也有时候,你被最爱的人误解,你难过到不想争辩,也只有选择沈默。全世界都可以不懂你,但他应该懂,若他竟然不能懂,还有什么话可说?那么,不想说话,就不说吧,在多说无益的时候,也许沈默就是最好的解释。
  
至少平静  
在你跌入人生谷底的时候,你身旁所有的人都告诉你:要坚强,而且要快乐。坚强是绝对需要的,但是快乐?在这种情形下,恐怕是太为难你了。毕竟,谁能在跌得头破血流的时候还觉得高兴?但是至少可以做 到平静。平静地看待这件事,平静地把其他该处理的事处理好。平静,没有快乐,也没有不快乐。
   
不要想如果当初  
人生是一条有无限多岔口的长路,永远在不停地做选择。如果只是选择吃炒面或炒饭,影响似乎不大,但选择读什么科系、做什么工作、结婚或不结婚、要不要有孩子,每一个选择都影响深远,而不同的选择也必定造就完全不一样的人生。生命中不可承受之情,就在于人生没有重来 的机会啊。如果当初如何如何,现在就不会怎样怎样。。。这种充满怅然的喃喃自语,还是别再多说了吧。每一个岔口的选择其实没有真正的好与坏,只要把人生看 成是自己。独一无二的创作,就不会频频回首如果当初做了不一样的选择。
  
保持单纯  
因为思虑过多,所以常会把自己的人生复杂化了。明明是活在现在,却总是念念不忘着过去,又忧心忡忡着未来;坚持携带着过去、未来与现在同行,你的人 生当然只有一片拖泥带水。而单纯是一种恩宠状态。单纯地以皮肤感受天气的变化,单纯地以鼻腔品尝雨后的青草香,单纯地以眼睛统摄远山近景如一幅画。单纯地活在当下。而当下其实无所谓是非真假。既然没有是非,就不必思虑;没有真假,就无须念念不忘又忧心忡忡。无是非真 假,不就像在做梦一样了吗?是呀,就单纯地把你的人生当成梦境去执行吧。
  
控制情绪别浪费了
今天的你,是不开心的你,因为有人在言语间刺伤了你。你不喜欢吵架,所以你离开;可是你只是离开了那,却没有离开被那人伤害的情境,因此你愈想愈生气。愈有气,你就愈没有力气去理会别的事情,许多更该用心去做去想去处理的事件,就在你漫天漫地的心烦意乱之中,被轻忽被漠视被省略了。因为,你只是一心一意地在生气。在情绪上做文章,这是对自己的浪费,而且是很坏的浪费。毕竟,生气也是要花力气的,而且生气一定伤元气。所以,聪明如你,别让情绪控制了你,当你又要生气之 前,不妨轻声地提醒自己一句:“别浪费了。”
  
悄悄悄悄地回归平静  
曾经有一段时间,你心情低落,甚至懒得拉开窗帘,看着窗外的阳光。因此你当然也忘了去看看,窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的百合花。如此不知过了多久,总算有一天,你度过了心情的低潮,同时也想起了你的百合。天啊,可怜的花,它还活着吗?你战战兢兢地拉开窗帘,却见它迎风招摇,花颜可掬。原来在过去的这段日子里,你虽然忘了喂它喝水,老天却没忘了以雨露眷顾它呢。许多事物悄悄地在你的视线之外进行,而且悄悄地安排好了它们自己。天生万物,天养万 物,一切其实无须担心。。。

你只要做的就是做好自己,不留任何遗憾。。。足矣!!!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Keng Mun & Li Ting's Registration Day

Another good and happy event that I attended
Congrats to the couple again for their registration...
Yeah
2 happy and big events in a month
WOW!!


The card that we pick specially for them

hahaha
tang tang tang tang~~~

haha
we make them do all kind of pose
juz for us to take pictures
you just can't imagine
how many paparazzi did they invite

Awwwww.....

haha
suppose to be serious
can still pose for the camera
not bad


The traditional way
as always
exchange of rings

The parents, the couple and the who
which I do not know what he is suppose to called

Friends

The big pictures of the two families

The threes

Lunch at some club house
yeah
if I am not mistaken

This is a full whole picture
looks a bit far
haha
the girls just love the mirror
don't they?


Li Ting
posing at a very nice spot in the washroom
and ahem its near a jacuzzi
will just fall into the water

just for fun :)
gone crazy d

Wendy
that is what took us so so so so long in the washroom
that kept everyone waiting
opps..sorry peepz..


he just can't stop laughing




The end
of the whole story

congrats to the couple again and again
just hope that they are also happily ever after
good for them and yup yup yup
:)


*smile*

Kia Yee's Wedding Dinner

A big smile on the face when I was thinking back of this particular event!
Really a great event and I am glad that I attended it
Particularly seeing my ex-colleague and friend getting married
and I am truly happy for her :)
They are truly meant to be with each other....

The gift that they give to all the guess.....
so sweet....The gift that we gave her...
I really hope she loves that (nervous)


Spot the difference people
Really nice decoration of the hall and the table and also the stage

Oh oh oh oh
Red wine
that we each had one

Saw the other bottle in the so-call cooler???
hahaha..brought by ahem...Mr. Lee

The card



The lovely couple that was married not long ago

Close up

Me and Li Ting (Mrs. Lee)
Whose hand is that??

Love this one particularly
lalalala...

Me and Wendy


Following pictures are the girls moment:

The threes...

Some crazy picture

This one is not bad.....

Love this one the most....
truly and will forever love this one...

AWWWWWW~~~~~ fireworks when they finished "yam seng"
really love this
wondering will I have this when I get married
haha...
thinking too much now...


Cute
They have this to tell the crowd to be silence
when the someone is speaking

The mc

quite far..
the newly wed couple

End the post and the day
with a cling of glass
haha

congrats to the couple
and hope that they are happily ever after
:)


*smile*