words

有时人的心总是很复杂的，它可以很坚强也可以很脆弱..坚强的时候可以一滴眼泪也没有即时当时的心是淌着血的...同样的当脆弱的时候可能一句话就足以造成严重的创伤，可能造成永远在心中的痛，再也无发回头了...

saw this words in facebook written by one of my senior

this is very true for me
i guess everyone has bad times in life
this is very usual for all people who live in this world
it depends on how bad the bad time is
and how you really handle the bad time both physically and mentally

i really understand this few words in depth
because i think i had pass this stage
and anticipating another similar incident
and hopefully it wont happen again
if it happens again
i will really handle it very well because i had an experience before

very well
i can still feel the impact of this words
it seems to be carve in my heart
everything made me realise that

sad and being hurt is what we need to be familiarise with
heart of human being is very weak
it is actually made of glass
and i do not really agree that people who has a metal heart
it is just that
the heart is still glass and after a lot of breaking
the heart will unconsciously build some metal to surround it to act as a shield
so that the risk of being hurt is minimize to the minimum
but how strong the shield is
it will break someday some how

words is sometimes sharper than any weapons in the world
it hurts people so fast and the pains of it retains
how long can it retain?
it depends on how strong the word is and what is the tone like

maybe one sentence is enough to kill a person
and
it being hurts forever
the person has to bare the pain forever
and the one who says that can really run away from being painfull
how unfair is that

but that is it
life is always unfair
reality is always cruel

thats life
thats life~~